About the things that Executives say ...


I had a great conversation this morning with a friend on Facebook about the ways that corporations and their executives are weighing in on socially political issues in the United States. Here is the heart of what I feel about it:
"My point is that it seems to be foolish (to me anyways) for a businessman (Christian or not) to alienate customers based on their own view of a politically charged issue. I also think that it is foolish for Starbucks, Microsoft and Nike to openly support the opposite view in Washington State's pending same-sex marriage legislation."
My view seems to resonate with some:
"Usually companies stay away from anything contentious," says Allen Adamson, managing director at branding firm Landor Associates and author of "BrandSimple: How the Best Brands Keep it Simple and Succeed." "They want the focus and attention on their products and services."
Interesting how consumers are reacting. Some are boycotting and some are supporting companies like Chick-fil-A and Costco because of things that their leaders have said. Some don't feel a need to respond either way to the things that executives say or the issues that they endorse. I am more in the latter camp. And I imagine that, in the long term, folks will be eating chicken and drinking coffee in the establishments that disagree with their political views.


The Vow | ★★★★


The plot of "The Vow" is about a young happily married couple whose world is upset in a major way when the wife loses all memory of their life together after an auto accident where she suffers a traumatic brain injury. I had heard about it before I saw it and what I expected was a thoughtful expression about renewed love in the style of that great Harrison Ford flick, "Regarding Henry". What I saw was very different and pretty disappointing.   That said, I think you will like this movie if you enjoy ...

    1) totally clichéd portrayals of traumatic brain injuries,
    2) really superficial selfish characters, and
    3) predictable story lines based on true stories.

Clichéd as it is, I think that the movie is not without merit. I liked Channing Tatum in it  - his character was perhaps the only redeeming aspect of the flick.

Obviously I really didn't care for "The Vow" and, on a scale of ten, I give it ★★★★.



Grieving Job Recap #4


Following is a recap in excerpts of last week's devotions on the Grieving of Job:

       Divine sovereignty allows but does not cause things to happen to us.

       Sometimes it is so helpful to get outside of ourselves and direct our attention elsewhere.

       He never really answered any of the questions that Job asked Him.

       The lessons of age often (but not always) provides us with a context to deal with loss.

       It can be so hard when we grieve and our prayers are unanswered.

       Dealing with the past that we have lost is a normal and essential phase of grief.

       Prayer can sometimes be such a lonely proposition. A grieving person can feel so alone.


I'll finish my devotions this week on the grieving of Job. Please stop by daily and join with me in the journey here.


Will I recognize you in Heaven?



Whenever I hear anyone talk about heaven they seem to speak to the idea that there will be a great reunion there with loved ones who have preceded them in death. I am not sure they would be able to tell you why they believe that they will recognize those who they knew on earth. Our pastor, Adam Hamilton, wrote an answer to the question "Will I be Married in Heaven?" and began by saying:
"Jesus indicated that people will no longer marry in heaven. This concept seems disturbing to many who are happily married but may be a great source of relief to those who have struggled in their marriages!"
That answer is such a hoot! Guess it is all a matter of perspective. The question does beg the bigger question of whether we will actually be able to recognize each other in the afterlife. I feel that we will. My thinking is based on the idea that many knew Jesus after his resurrection - there was something unique about him that people could sense. Likewise I feel that each of us possess a uniqueness that will stay with us after we die. But I could be wrong.

How would you answer the question posed in the title? Please share.


The God Particle


Did anyone catch the news a few weeks about the discovery by physicists at the European Organization for Nuclear Research in Switzerland who say that they have all but proven that the "God particle" exists. Here is an excerpt about it from a piece titled: "Higgs Boson: 'God Particle' Discovery Ignites Debate Over Science And Religion" ...
"One thing is clear: The July 4 discovery that marked a new chapter in scientific knowledge also reignited debate over the universe's origins -- and the validity of religious faith as scientific knowledge expands. The Higgs boson explains why particles have mass -- and in turn why we exist. Without the boson, the universe would have no physical matter, only energy."
Here are a few quotes from the article that show how diverse reactions are to it:
  • "Humans, with their remarkable tools and their remarkable brains, may have just taken a giant step toward replacing metaphysical speculation with empirically verifiable knowledge." "That's the difference between science and religion." "We don't require the universe to be what we want -- we force our beliefs to conform to the evidence of reality." -Lawrence M. Krauss, an Arizona State University theoretical physicist

  • "The mysteries revealed by modern science are a constant reminder that reality is bigger than our day-to-day lives." -Vatican astronomer Guy Consolmagno

  • "It only strengthens the notion that the universe comes out of a nothingness which is everything. -Alternative medicine guru Deepak Chopra

  • "The awe we feel with this heady topic causes even nonreligious people to use religious language." Humans are really fascinated with what we know scientifically and what lies right at the boundaries of what we can know." "The fans and the foes of religion ... are overreaching on both sides. The quest for the Higgs boson, and its ultimate discovery, neither proves nor disproves God." -Philip Clayton, dean of Claremont School of Theology and a researcher of science and religion.

I love the idea that there is something physical that came out of nothing. It speaks to me of the Genesis story and how God spoke the world into existence. Even so, I agree with Philip Clayton that such discoveries neither proves nor disproves God. I am one who agrees with the writer of Hebrews when he writes: "By faith we understand that the universe was created by the word of God, so that what is seen was not made out of things that are visible."


What is a Nervous Breakdown?


When I was young the term "nervous breakdown" was a bit mysterious. A few adults in my life had such episodes and I really did not know what was going on. Here are a few words about it excerpted from an article, authored by Mayo Clinic psychiatrist Daniel K. Hall-Flavin, titled What does it mean to have a nervous breakdown?
"The term "nervous breakdown" is sometimes used to describe a stressful situation in which someone becomes temporarily unable to function normally in day-to-day life. It's commonly understood to occur when life's demands become physically and emotionally overwhelming. The term was commonly used in the past to cover a variety of mental disorders; it's used less often today.

Nervous breakdown isn't a medical term, however, nor does it indicate a specific mental illness. But that doesn't mean it's a normal or a healthy response to stress. A nervous breakdown may indicate an underlying mental health problem that needs attention, such as depression or anxiety.

Signs of a nervous breakdown vary from person to person and depend on the underlying cause. Exactly what constitutes a nervous breakdown also varies from one culture to another. Generally, it's understood to mean that a person is no longer able to function normally."
I can definitely relate to being incapacitated by stress and stressful situations. Things happen in life that we are unable to process mentally and/or emotionally. I remember vividly that time when my wife Ann's legs were paralyzed on a cruise ship. I could not think my way to peace. I had to let go of my thinking and hear the Voice in my heart that told me of my need to release control and flow. In the end I think stress is often a symptom of times when life seems so out of control.


Grieving Job Recap #3


Following is a recap in excerpts of last week's devotions on the Grieving of Job:

      Faith is so important in navigating the deep emotions that surface when we grieve.

      As I cried through those words with the group I felt such deep pain being released.

      It is so important to simply acknowledge the loss that a friend or loved one has suffered.

      Our mind is not geared to deal with loss. It cannot deal with things that are unfathomable.

      In times like these it is so easy to be angry with God - even if we do not blame him for our pain.

      On occasion we find words that bring strength and courage to grieving people ... words that assuage their pain.

      When bad things happen to people like Job there can be a temptation to say that they caused it.


Stop by this week and walk with me here as I journey through the grieving of Job.



Profiling Doctor Tattoo

Saw this on Facebook today and, in light of my last post, could not resist posting it. I may be wrong but I think that it is generally older people (and make those of a more religious ilk) who profile (read that judge) people with tattoos. Younger folks, generally speaking, seem to be cool with tattoos. What is your experience? Do you subconsciously stereotype, profile or judge people with tattoos? Have you been on the receiving end of such judgment?


Tattoo Regrets


A few weeks ago our local NBC station ran a video titled "Tattoos not so permanent for some with regrets". Here is a blurb from it:

Right now, people in their 30s are more likely to have a tattoo than younger or older adults. More women have them than men, according to a recent poll. "People want to express themselves show what they believe in ...show what they like," said Martinez. And when their enthusiasm of the artwork starts to fade, eventually they will want it removed.

"When the laser hits the ink it kind of shatters it," said laser specialist Tayler Rittenhouse. The laser breaks down the ink and the body flushes it away, and the number of sessions depends on the color and quality of ink. The closer it is to the heart, the faster it typically fades. Cost is based on the size of the tattoo starting at $100 per session, and customers say it is not a painless fix.


Are you tempted to get tatted now that you knowing that this procedure is available? Count me out on both counts. :)




When you're in Asia

My friend Allison, an elementary school teacher in Kansas City, recently traveled to Asia to encourage friends who are serving Christ, loving hurting children and sharing the good news over there. I love the relational way that she and two of her friends spent a few weeks to care for their friends. Below are a few excerpts from her note about the trip:

When you're in Asia:
  • McDonald's and Pizza Hut are first date-caliber restaurants. (Pizza Hut even had chandeliers. Fancy.)
  • Lane divisions on the road and driving on the right side of the road are mere suggestions.
  • If you wear a ring on your left ring finger--any kind of ring--you may be asked how many children you have.
  • If you are white and you travel to a part of the country where white people are rarely seen, you can expect Asians will want to take their photo with you.
  • Asia is a great place to buy knock-off brand clothing and shoes, such as Snike and TCMS.
  • Men have no qualms about pulling up their shirts partway to cool off their their bellies.
  • Pajamas are acceptable daytime attire.
  • Just because you're in a public toilet intended for one person doesn't mean someone won't come in and join you.

I am certainly still taking note of the ways that I have grown and changed as a result of this trip, but I wanted to share a couple of things the trip has brought to light for me:
  1. When I am obedient to G-d, he never fails to put me in the right place at the right time.
  2. When all is said and done, the kingdoms of this world will eventually fall. The only kingdom that remains forever is G-d's kingdom, and that brings me tremendous comfort. It also motivates me to pr-y for the kingdoms that currently have power on earth.
  3. Teaching a child his/her dignity and worth truly does change the world.

If you want to read more of what Allison writes, she occasionally blogs at Telling the truth, becoming original.


Is Church a place to discuss Political Issues?


A few weeks ago Michelle Obama, the First Lady of the USA, said these words to the African Methodist Episcopal Church’s 49th general conference, held in in Nashville, Tennessee:
"To anyone who says that church is no place to talk about these issues, you tell them there is no place better – no place better. Because ultimately, these are not just political issues – they are moral issues."
I like the idea of discussing politics in church and like the thought of presenting a moral aspect of issues from the pulpit. Seems like an appropriate teaching venue. Yet I am not in favor of preachers slamming or endorsing candidates. In my opinion, biased politicking has no place in spiritual messages. What do you think?


Grieving Job Recap #2


Following is a recap in excerpts of last week's devotions on the Grieving of Job:

      There is something about the passing of a loved one that sets our minds on eternity.

      No one ever told me that grief felt so like fear.

      Everyone that once honored and respected him is now calling his character into question.

      How can one trust their grieving heart to One who has caused them so much pain

      His words embody the idea that God is angry with him and the boils he suffers is an open accusation against him.

      I have been in such dark places where my posture is argumentative and my attitude one of bargaining.

      Advice such as this only angers people that are in pain and keeps them stuck in grief.


Stop by this week and walk with me here as I journey through the grieving of Job.





Will Our Pets go to Heaven?


I love the way that our pastor, Adam Hamilton, takes on difficult questions. I am of the ilk that pets do not have a spirit that survives death but enjoyed Adam's take on the question in his weekly e-note a few weeks ago. Have a look at Adam's take on the question below and let me know what you think! How would you answer the question?


One of the questions I've been asked frequently in this series of messages is whether our pets go to heaven. I posted this question on my Pastor Adam Hamilton web page and received a number of interesting responses. The Bible does not directly take up this question, so any answer is speculative, but I'll take a stab at an answer.

First, I hope all animals don't go to heaven. I really don't care much for ticks, spiders, snakes, wolves and bears! But perhaps even some of these have a place in heaven. Isaiah once gave a picture of the coming Messianic age in which he states that in that age, "The wolf and the lamb will feed together, and the lion will eat straw like the ox, but dust will be the serpent's food. They will neither harm nor destroy on all my holy mountain, says the LORD." This may have been simply a metaphorical way of speaking about that future realm, but it may also point to the truth that there will be animals in heaven.

In Revelation we hear of Christ riding a horse as he returns for the final judgment. Some point to this as a sign that the animals we've known on earth join us in heaven. Others have argued that animals don't have souls and thus will not be in heaven. I suppose that depends upon how one defines a soul. I have always felt that my pets did have souls - they have intelligence, personality, and character and they express joy, protectiveness, and companionship.

My thinking on this question is that it is possible that God raises up those animals that had special meaning in our lives, and that perhaps his resurrection of these creatures is part of the gift that God gives us in heaven. I'm thinking that this raising up of animals may be tied closely to the connection these animals had with human beings, and that not all animals are in heaven, but that animals may be "saved" by virtue of the faith of their human companions. I know that for many people who never had children, their pets are their children. For any who have loved an animal, they become an important part of one's life.

Each time we've lost a pet I have had a brief ceremony thanking God for the life of the pet and commending them to God's care. I'm not concerned about seeing the gerbils, hamsters and rabbits in heaven (I've lost track of all their names by now). But dogs and cats seem somehow more important to me.

There is one last thought I've had about this. In the Bible, Paradise is a word used for the afterlife where the righteous dead go. Jesus uses this term as he was dying on the cross. Paradise, as you may remember, was the name for the "king's garden" - a place of beauty that combined both the concept of an arboretum with that of a zoo. Animals were kept in the king's garden.

So, when a pet dies, I commend them to God's love and care. They are creatures of God and, in some ways less marred by sin and more freely giving glory to God than we humans. I trust God with their lives. I find comfort in the thought that they, too, will experience the blessings of paradise.


Man on a Ledge | ★★★★★★★



I agree with a Netflix reviewer who said "Man on a Ledge is a thoroughly preposterous yet eminently entertaining edge-of-your-seat thriller." Ann and I both enjoyed this entertaining desperate-man-exposing-cop-corruption flick. The plot was filled with some surprising twists as convicted ex-cop Nick Cassidy, played by Sam Worthington, seeks to redeem his name and expose police misconduct in the NYPD.

I thought that the supporting cast did a pretty good job and especially liked the performance of Génesis Rodríguez. The ending was fairly predictable but I liked it anyways. The DVD came with a fascinating extra that showed how the film's producers built a sliding room of the top of the hotel and used an actual 21 story ledge to film the movie - it explained why the action seemed so real.

I recommend this one to you and, on a scale of ten, I give it ★★★★★★★.