On Fundamentalists And Fundamentalism

The following is lifted in total from here with credit to my blog friend Cindi who says about the author of the piece:
He is a Canadian man who converted to Islam in his young adult years. He was a Christian who studied for the ministry and was, in fact, an assistant pastor for two years. He became disillusioned with faith in general and left the ministry. Later, he converted to Islam.
I have said on many occasions here that Fundamentalism is not really religious but more a way of thinking, living and processing events. I liked this article and commend it to you.

My Take On Fundamentalists And Fundamentalism
by Yahya Abdul Rahman [Nov 7, 2006]

Fundamentalism has nothing to do with religion.

In fact, one does not have to believe in God or any religion to be a fundamentalist.

Fundamentalism is a mindset or a particular way a person interprets what they see around them, and in turn determines their course of action.

Fundamentalists tend to be rigid and will not accept any other interpretation of how things are other than their own.

They adhere to a set of principles- sometimes codified in a book or articulated by some charismatic leader- and they refuse to waver from those principles even if they have been proven wrong.

In fact, they are never wrong, and that is why they are called fundamentalists in the first place.

Everyone else is wrong, stupid or an agent for some other vested interest and, as a result, they- the non fundamentalists- cannot see the true reality.

Underscore THE true reality.

Fundamentalists build a wall of virtue around themselves and they are the only true purists.

Everyone else is tainted.

They have been to the top of the mountain and their "eyes have seen the glory of the coming of the Lord."

They are impossible to deal with and every argument one uses against them merely further confirms what they already believe to be true.

Thus, their position is irrefutable.

They do not believe in dialogue as that would be a cop out.

They don't believe in compromise as - once again - that would demonstrate that the other side may have a point.

If you even suggest to them to have an open mind then you are an apostate from "the cause" or an enemy that must be silenced at all costs.

They are usually vulgar and abusive in their language, but can dress their presentation up a bit when the need arises.

They may call themselves Muslims, Jews, Christians, Hindus, atheists, anarchists, environmentalists, left wing, right wing, centrist, fascist, democratic, socialist, progressive, and every other kind of "ism" one can think of.

They are NOT out to save the world, but to make it in their own image and will spend all their energies doing so.

Generally, they are very sad people but are convinced of their rightness, so the sadness is a necessary sacrifice for a higher cause.

How one arrives at such a state of mind is a subject of a lot of debate.

I think it is their means at finding concrete and ready made answers in a complex world and this gives them a sense of security - a sense of smugness that they are right and have seen the light.

One thing is for sure it is a very miserable way to live one's life.

The label "fundamentalism" is hurled at members of the Muslim community quite frequently as it is currently an effective way to bludgeon Muslims into silence.

Ironically, those making the accusations are - for the most part- the worst kind of fundamentalists themselves and possess those characteristics which have been outlined above.

Oh, yes, I forgot to mention, fundamentalists, while claiming moral superiority, are the worst form of hypocrites one can imagine.

Ettore Boiardi

Many of us who grew up in the pre-microwave era of tin-foil-panned frozen dinners and Jiffy-Pop stove-top popcorn well remember the canned pasta offered by Chef Boy-ar-dee.. but many of us probably did not know that the Chef was a real guy and the image on the can was his true-life picture. Here is a bit of his story with thanks to Wikipedia:

Ettore (Hector) Boiardi was born to Giuseppe and Maria Maffi Boiardi in Piacenza, Italy. On May 9, 1914, at the age of 16, he arrived at Ellis Island aboard the French ship La Lorraine.

Boiardi followed his brother to the kitchen of the Plaza Hotel in New York City, working his way up to head chef. In 1915, he supervised the catering for the reception of President Woodrow Wilson's second wedding at the Greenbrier, in West Virginia. His entrepreneurial skill became fine-tuned when he opened his first restaurant, Il Giardino d'Italia, whose name translated as “The Garden of Italy,” at East 9th Street and Woodland Avenue in Cleveland, Cuyahoga County, Ohio, in 1926. The patrons of Il Giardino d'Italia frequently asked for samples and recipes of his spaghetti sauce, which he often gave to customers in old milk bottles.

Boiardi began to use a factory in 1928 to keep up with orders, setting his sights on selling his product nationally. Touting the low cost of spaghetti products as a good choice to serve to the entire family, Boiardi introduced his product to the public in 1929. In 1938, production was moved to Milton, Pennsylvania, where Boiardi was able to maintain greater quality control over his products. He even grew his own tomatoes and mushrooms in the factory basement for use in his creations. Proud of his Italian heritage, Boiardi sold his products under the brand name “Chef Boy-Ar-Dee” so that his American customers could pronounce his name properly.

Boiardi's company made and prepared millions of rations for American and Allied troops during World War II, and for his efforts he was awarded a gold star order of excellence from the United States War Department. After struggling with cashflow and managing rapid internal growth, he sold his brand to American Home Foods, later International Home Foods, for approximately $6 million. Boiardi then invested in steel mills, which helped produce goods needed for the Korean war.

A Few Words about Letting Go

All the art of living lies in a fine mingling of letting go and holding on. -Havelock Ellis

Courage is the power to let go of the familiar. -Raymond Lindquist

Creativity can be described as letting go of certainties. -Gail Sheehy

Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure. -Oprah Winfrey

Hanging onto resentment is letting someone you despise live rent-free in your head. -Ann Landers

By letting it go it all gets done. The world is won by those who let it go. But when you try and try. The world is beyond the winning. -Lao Tzu

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. -Unknown

We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the life that is waiting for us. -Joseph Campbell

Where Do You Get Your News?


These are the results of a lifehacker poll asking the question in my title.

Gotta admit that most of my news these days comes from a mix of online RSS feeds and some cable news programs (which wasn't listed in their poll).

My wife would probably answer the poll with Primarily Print and TV news programs.

How would you answer the question?

Twelve Random Things About Bob

I have not done a meme in a long time.. saw that my blog friend Susan, the Penless Writer, posted her answers to these questions from Second Cup of Coffee.. so I thought I would follow suit:
  1. Do you prefer even or odd numbers? Any particular reason? I have obsessive compulsive leanings and gravitate towards neat and tidy "even" numbers.

  2. On a scale of 1-10, with 1 being "not at all" and 10 being Carly Simon-worthy, how vain are you? Probably 5 - I am much vainer than I think - don't ask me about trimming my mustache

  3. Among these Irish stereotypes, with which do you identify most closely? Talkative, Proud, Inquisitive, Love to party, Hot-tempered? Probably inquisitive - how about you?

  4. How lucky do you consider yourself? I have been blessed with a wonderful life! But I do feel lucky to have been born in this country to loving parents.

  5. What is the subject of your favorite post that you've written? Mostly the posts that have helped me learn about other's viewpoints. Through the patience and insight of blogging friends like Brian, Mike and so many others I feel that I have grown as a person - not that they have changed my mind

  6. Describe March weather where you live in three words. Warmer than February! I look forward to March each year in KC because it is the end of Winter and the prelude to spring.. and this year it will also be the end of the snow that still smatters the ground.

  7. How apt are you at detecting blarney when you hear it? (Smooth talk, flattery)
    I am pretty believing at first but over time I can spot smoke.

  8. How "green" are you, environmentally speaking? On a 1-10 scale? Probably a 6 or 7. I am more of a conservationist than an environmentalist. Don't think I would buy a hybrid - especially if it was more expensive.

  9. What is your favorite song this week? I listened to the Phantom of the Opera finale yesterday on my van's CD player.. not sure that qualifies as a favorite.. I have been humming a few worship songs this week.

  10. You are walking along and see a coin on the ground. What denomination does it have to be before you will stop to pick it up? Probably a nickel but I can't remember the last time I picked up loose change though.

  11. Complete the sentence: "Every time I look outside my window ...."  
    Lately I have been wishing for better weather.

  12. What was the #1 song on the day you were born? See this site to find out. 
    (Ghost) Riders in the Sky: A Cowboy Legend - Vaughn Monroe
Feel free to answer in the comments or post at your place.. let me know if you do.

Are You a Dog or Cat Person?


This funny Shoebox cartoon got me thinking about my two dearly departed cats.. especially Davin.. the grey cat. Davin was a bit fearless - one day he was sitting on a log in our backyard and a large Labrador Retriever came charging across the yard towards him.. Davin did not move an inch. The Lab got a few inches from Davin and started growling at him.. Davin took a swipe at the Lab's nose and the dog quickly retreated.. it was pretty funny to see.

All that said I have to say that I am a dog person. How about you?

Who Needs Snail-Mail on Saturday?

According to today's Wall Street Journal article titled Post Office Pushes Halt for Saturday Deliveries:
The U.S. Postal Service stepped up its campaign to end Saturday deliveries to help stem losses, but the move met with skepticism that signals an uphill battle for approval by regulators and Congress.

Postal officials sought support for a broad restructuring from a gathering in Washington on Tuesday that included big postal clients, congressional aides and postal workers' labor representatives. Without the restructuring, the agency potentially faces $238 billion in projected losses in the next 10 years, Postmaster General John E. Potter warned.
Once upon a time losing Saturday snail-mail delivery would not bother me at all.. then my daughter got me this Netflix subscription.. now I sometimes get a DVD on Saturdays. Sadly I cannot think of any other reason to keep Saturday snail-mail delivery. How about you? How often do you need snail-mail delivery? Apart from Netflix I would be okay with once a week.

78mph 500hp Electric Porsche Spyder


Yeah.. I am drooling.. according to this Wired Magazine article this car has 500 horsepower, a mid-engine V-8, two electric motors and gets 78.4 mpg.. not that I can afford one.

The Bloom Box



Interesting 2 minute video. Saw the 15 minute interview a few weeks ago on 60 minutes and was very impressed. From what I gleaned from it this Bloom Box device could eventually take your natural gas feed and turn it into electricity thus removing your need for the Electric Company. It will be interesting to see where this goes.

Another Caffeine Party is Born

Just learned about this on Facebook this morning. This Coffee Party Movement was started on Facebook by Annabel Park, a 41 year old documentary filmmaker living in the DC area who got mad about the state of affairs in DC. It seems like it is way too early in their "movement" to have any political positions yet.. they describe themselves as a "work-in-progress". Here are a few of their major themes excerpted from their Facebook page:
  • It's not about coffee or tea. It's about this simple question: are we as Americans getting the leadership and representation we need from our elected officials?
  • Our message to Congress: You work for us, not for corporations. We hired you and we get to fire you. We pay you and give you great health insurance. Now get to work serving the interests of the American people, or get out.
  • Another way of putting it is this: we have a democracy with a loophole. The most active, most well-funded, and most organized interests can dominate the process. And for many years, corporations have dominated our democratic process because they can afford to hire thousands of lobbyists to reside in Washington DC and actively influence the direction of our government.
So far these folks have 37,458 fans on Facebook.. even I became a fan. Maybe I need to find the official Tea Party page and fan them as well.. maybe one day these parties will come together.. maybe they will be known as the Caffeine Party.. a group of folks hopped up on morning stimulants and ready to revolt against the political machine that seems to run our country.. maybe closer than we think?

Are you, like me, frustrated by our leaders in DC? On a scale of 10 I am at 7 - you?

Blogging to Empty Seats

Sometimes blogging seems like this.. not being able to speak face-to-face is an interesting aspect to blogging.. sometimes you just have to quote a few other folks to feel good

Blogging is the new poetry. -Unknown

Your blog is your unedited version of yourself. -Lorelle

I sincerely believe blogging can save America. -John Jay Hooker

The influence of blogging is overall a very positive force in the media. -Garrett M. Graff

A blog is in many ways a continuing conversation -Andrew Sullivan

Cuss Free Week

Sometimes when I read the News it seems that it is all bad news. So I was surprised when this AP article showed up in my Google Reader. It is titled "Cuss-free week? Calif. lawmakers voting on it". Here is a clip from it:
The state Assembly passed a resolution Thursday calling for a statewide "Cuss Free Week," to occur annually during the first week of March. It next goes to the state Senate for a final vote on Monday.

The rest of next week will be officially swear-word free if both houses approve the resolution.

The resolution by Assemblyman Anthony Portantino, D-La Canada Flintridge, was inspired by a South Pasadena teenager, McKay Hatch, who founded a No Cussing Club at his junior high school in 2007. His efforts to stamp out profanity have generated international attention, with 35,000 members joining the No Cussing Club's Web site.
I love this! Yeah it may seem to be a piece of unenforceable fluff legislation to some but I think that it may send a message to the folks in California.. and it just may help create a level of civility.. even if it is on a small level.

If you are interested in how much cussing you do on your blog you may want to visit the Cuss-O-Meter page.. the KansasBob.com results are pictured above.

What do you think? Will you join in next week? Not that you cuss all that much

Man's Search for Meaning

It is not too often that I write about a book that I want to read. I saw something on Facebook this week (I think that is where I saw it) that caused me to check it out. Here is part of what the Wiki says about it:
Viktor Frankl's 1946 book Man's Search for Meaning chronicles his experiences as a concentration camp inmate and describes his psychotherapeutic method of finding a reason to live. According to Frankl, the book intends to answer the question "How was everyday life in a concentration camp reflected in the mind of the average prisoner?" Part One constitutes Frankl's analysis of his experiences in the concentration camps, while Part Two introduces his ideas of meaning and his theory of logotherapy.
According to a survey conducted by the Book-of-the-Month Club and the Library of Congress, Man's Search For Meaning belongs to a list of "the ten most influential books in [the United States]." (New York Times, November 20, 1991). At the time of the author's death in 1997, the book had sold 10 million copies in twenty-four languages.
The Wiki gives a synopsis of the book and a bit of depth into Frankl's experience.. they also list some quotes from the book.. here are a few:
  • We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. They may have been few in number, but they offer sufficient proof that everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way.
  • A man can get used to anything, but do not ask us how.
  • When we are no longer able to change a situation – just think of an incurable disease such as inoperable cancer – we are challenged to change ourselves.
  • Fundamentally, therefore, any man can, even under such circumstances, decide what shall become of him – mentally and spiritually. He may retain his human dignity even in a concentration camp.
That first quote floored me when I read it. This also causes me to ponder:
Frankl also concludes that there are only two races of men, decent men and indecent. No society is free of either of them, and thus there were "decent" Nazi guards and "indecent" prisoners, most notably the kapo who would torture and abuse their fellow prisoners for personal gain.
The piece concludes that "Frankl's meaning in life is to help others find theirs." The book seems to be one that might do just that. I would be interested in hearing your thoughts on the book (especially if you have read it) and if you recommend my reading it.

Not all Pain is Gain

I woke up this morning with a bit more arthritic pain in my wrists than usual - not all pain is gain.

Reminds me about this "Cholesterol" drug that I was on for a few years.. one of the side-effects of the drug was pain.. didn't know about it until my sister described the leg pains that went away when she went off the drug.. I stopped and in a short while the pain in my left leg was gone and was no longer keeping me awake at night - not all pain is gain.

Also think about the antibiotic that Ann was prescribed in November - that drug gave Ann extreme tendinitis in her upper arms and impaired her ability to get in and out of her wheelchair - not all pain is gain.

Guess my point is that pain is sometimes inflicted on us by well-meaning folks like doctors.. often they are prescribing them to counteract something like high cholesterol.. how high is high anyway? My suggestion is to always examine the side-effects of drugs, and even natural remedies, before you begin taking them.. and discuss alternatives with your doc - not all pain is gain.

Your turn - let me know if you have had any bad side-effects from "medicine".